Depression is hard…trying to keep going and not let on that you are struggling. Doing what has to be done. Tired all the time. Battling the hopelessness. Frustrated because the negative feelings aren’t fully connected to the reality that you are living in. Knowing that things aren’t really all that bad, but mad at yourself because you are unhappy anyway. Not living up to the expectations that you are placing upon yourself. The little voice in your head that gets louder and louder – criticizing and commenting on all your failures. Knowing that the folks around you (who don’t live with you) are unaware of the struggle. Pulling into yourself bit by bit until only you only have to deal with your immediate surroundings, decisions you can’t avoid and work you have to do. Realizing that you’ve isolated yourself from anyone who might be able to help because you don’t want them to be aware that you are weak and less than perfect.
…an unhappy tiny little world…
I’m peeking out a bit today. This vicious little merry-go-round ride I’ve been on is not fun. I’m blogging today and I will write again tomorrow. I promise myself.
Life has really been going on rather normally I suppose. Most people around me would probably be surprised to know how hard the last few weeks/months have been. What’s been happening since I last wrote regularly?
I’ve got three part-time jobs now. Part of it is for the money – we are really working on getting our debt paid down.
My newest job is teaching at a private school that opened in our little town. Did I share this already? I’m teaching art one day a week and am really enjoying it. I was pretty sure that I would like it, but am actually surprised at how much! It’s been fun to get to know the kids and to see how talented some of them are and how enthusiastic they all are. The art lessons are supposed to complement the history curriculum and they are studying the Renaissance. That’s challenging to do in one hour, one day a week. I’ve been lightly touching on an aspect of Renaissance Art and then adapting a lesson to be both fun and fit into the time we have. Today we did a “stained glass” project using tissue paper, laminating sheets and a laminator.
My youngest and I are fully into our homeschool year. It’s been sooooo different having only one “student”. We’ve actually “done” school almost every day and are hardly behind my schedule at all. We’ve also managed several field trips (other than trips to the grocery store). We’ve visited the Blanton Art Museum and the Austin Zoo so far. Not bad for a self-described eclectic un-schooling family.
We’ve been working on the house doing some small maintenance and renovation projects. Right now we are working in our hallway which is almost large enough to be a room on it’s own. Three of the bedrooms, the classroom/studio and hall bath open into it. It also contains a built-in desk, counter and two upper cabinets. I’ve decluttered enough that the cabinet above the desk is almost empty so we are removing it. It overshadows the desk and looks cramped. We’re putting in a simple shelf instead. Less stuff, less clutter and a more open airy feel. All the walls are going to be painted Polar Bear white. I’m ready for simple, uncluttered and peaceful!
Still sorting through stuff and trying to see how little we really need. Layer by layer we are downsizing. About a box a week is going to the thrift store and the trash can is always overflowing. Where does it all come from?!?!
Not much is happening on the art front. I just haven’t had the energy to complete anything. Anything I did attempt just didn’t measure up to my expectations. I’m cleaning an architect’s office and have been gifted a lot of flooring and upholstery samples. I’m planning on playing with them and seeing what I can come up with. Lots of fun colors and textures!
Time to open the blinds, throw open the windows and let the breeze blow in. No more shutting out the world! There is joy out there to be found, lived and enjoyed. I’m going to give it a try…